Happy Start

The year I will finally be on my feet. Too much to look forward to. Its the time of the final shape of my molding, how I will be seen as a person for the rest of my life. Getting a job and being independent is so relieving. And so underrated 😛

I hope everyone’s dream comes true just like mine.

Happiest New Year Everyone! Be optimistic, be Happy 🙂

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Being Different

Congratulations! If you are reading this, it means i have finally welcomed you to my intellectual side( the smallest part of my brain). I may or may not be a good writer but i will love it to see your comments on my writing or just let me know how bad i am 😛

Let’s start with the one thing i think is going to get extinct soon from the world.

*RESPECT*!  For people,by people,to people!

Maybe not very great topic to argue about but i think it’s a new trend to make snap judgement about people,on the basis of their clothes and bank balance. Not that money is the culprit but to a large extent it is the reason behind it. It gives them power to talk thrash.People with pockets full of cash think they own the world. They may be looking like crap, no sense to talk what so ever but the attitude will be rocket high. Although it’s true you cannot command respect about but least you can do is disrespect. I find it terribly frustrating  people with bad mouth. People considering themselves superior or better because the other is as not as extravagant or that person think before spending money uselessly doesn’t make him inferior but it sure makes you idiot. Which you are of course if judge people on this basis. Respect each others personal judgment.

Respecting means a regard for others feelings,appreciating their individualism. It doesn’t mean you have to agree to every statement they make . You have to accept them and not beat them over head with it. And yes that counts for people younger than you too. Just because they are not your age doesn’t mean they are not mature enough. They could be way mature and understanding than you think. Age doesn’t guarantee maturity.

On one hand you say age is just a number but when it comes to people younger than your age they should be refrained from any major decisions. Why? Respect their decisions. They have right to make decision even if they are not the best of decisions .At least they could learn from it. Stop forcing your judgments on them.

Respect your peers, your friends, your partner ,your guru, your parents.

I don’t really believe in love. I believe in respecting your significant other and knowing being different is way more harmonious,compatible and romantic. [You know now why opposites attract-RESPECT :)]    And it’s important for every relationship. Not just with your partner. It creates a positive and happy environment  when people know they are being liked and appreciated just the way they are. They’ll make more efforts for you.

Notice the difference in your life, how it mellows down and less tiring it becomes when you just accept everyone’s different approaches towards things. How nice is it when you come home after long day and people let you do whatever YOU want and not scream and force you to what THEY want.

Respect other religions. Know they are not all meant to wear same clothes,talk in same language, share same thoughts,same society. Try to bend yourself according to people. It won’t do any harm. It will make you a more likable person.

Be united by the differences. Respect the individualism.